|| Pureheart offers effective, affordable, confidential, and
Biblically-grounded counseling. Pureheart specializes in teaching
Christian men how to break free of sexual sin, walk in consistent
purity, and live out their God-given destiny. Additionally, we have
years of experience treating adults dealing with chemical addiction,
stress disorder, childhood abuse and trauma, grief recovery, and/or
phase of life issues.
We offer counseling over the
phone and locally if you live in the Portland, Oregon Metro area. Pureheart
counselors are Master’s level counselors and/or experienced pastors who have
themselves overcome sexual addiction and now walk in consistent purity (see
Tim’s Story listed
under Who is Pureheart?).
Pureheart counseling is:
Unique | Bible-based |
Cutting-edge | Affordable and Confidential
Pureheart counseling is unique!
As former pastors, professional counselors, and men who can personally
empathize with what you are going through, we have designed a cutting-edge
curriculum based on our successful process of breaking free of addiction
(Click on Who is Pureheart? and Pureheart's Curriculum learn more). Our
curriculum is utterly unique—using World War II as a backdrop, we teach you
step-by-step how to get clean and stay clean.
What does WWII have to do with purity? We use a warfare theme
throughout our curriculum precisely because we want you to understand that
living pure in today’s society is an act of war. With the advent of the
Internet, living pure in our sex-crazed culture has become increasingly
difficult as we are bombarded with temptation from all sides. As your
brothers in Christ, however, we are here to encourage you to fight the good
fight, holding on to the Biblical standard of purity until you achieve the
righteous walk that, in your heart of hearts, has always been your greatest
desire. We have proved the principles we teach in our own lives and in the
many success stories of the men we have counseled (click on
Testimonials to learn more).
We have been there, done that and yet now we walk in daily purity.
If we can break free, anyone can!
Pureheart counseling is Bible-based!
Using our pastoral training and years of pastoral experience, we
have firmly grounded our teaching in Scripture. We know the truth and power
of God's Word from personal experience. Sadly, because of their training,
many Christian counselors and psychologists put much more faith in Freud
than God. We believe in the miraculous power of God—we are living
testimonies to His grace and His ability to save us from the power of
darkness and set us free from the deep, deep pit of sexual sin, bringing us
into the light! We will pray with you at the beginning and end of every
session because ultimately we place far more faith in the Holy Spirit’s
power to help you change your life than in our own limited abilities as
counselors. We use Scripture throughout our teaching. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-6
is one of our key passages:
“It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid
sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in
a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen
who do not know God.” (NIV)
Notice two very important truths from this passage. First of all,
sexual purity is not natural behavior, at least not at first, even for the
Christian. The default mode for something as powerful as our sex drive is
passionate lust. Sexual purity is learned behavior. You and I must learn to
control our sex drive; it is not something we are born knowing how to do.
Secondly, learning implies that you have a teacher. How can we ever expect
Christian men to live pure if the church in general never teaches them how
to achieve consistent purity? When’s the last time you heard a preacher
speak on how to break the habit of masturbation, for example, and yet how
many men constantly struggle with this habit! Now, however, you have no
excuse to stay in sexual sin, because we promise to teach you everything we
know about getting pure and staying pure.
Pureheart's counseling is Bible-based. View
Pureheart's Curriculum to see sample
briefings and judge for yourself.
Pureheart is cutting-edge!
Our goal is to offer low-cost, individual counseling for men. We
use the latest therapeutic models alongside tried-and-true techniques to
provide you with the most effective counseling possible. We have had
remarkable success in helping men overcome a variety of issues and concerns,
most notably in the area of sexual purity. Click on Testimonials to read
about some real-life examples.
Pureheart specializes in helping men deal with issues related to
sexual purity, but we also have experience treating adults dealing with
chemical addiction, depression, posttraumatic stress disorder, childhood abuse and trauma, grief
recovery, and/or phase of life issues. Pureheart’s approach to therapy
incorporates spiritual mentoring based on our training and experience as
pastors combined with the best that psychology has to offer including
Motivational Interviewing techniques, 12 Step methods, and
Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy. We do not believe that the counselor is the
doctor and the client is the patient; rather we believe that counseling is a
process where people work together in order to bring about healing,
spiritual maturity, and change. Our goal as counselors is to listen well,
give our clients encouragement and hope, speak the truth in love, accurately
discern the root causes behind the issues, and provide practical,
Many people try to overcome addictive behavior on their own, but
they fail, not for lack of effort, but simply because they lack the
necessary skills. We will equip you with the practical wisdom you need to
break the chains of addictive behavior.
Pureheart counselors adhere to the American Association of
Christian Counselor’s Code of Ethics in their practice. Clients may obtain a
copy of the Code of Ethics at any time.
Is Pureheart affordable and confidential?
Yes! We have worked hard to make our counseling affordable, charging less
than half of what many counselors and psychologists charge. We charge a flat
rate of $70.00 for each 50 minute session ($30 for sessions with an intern). Generally we recommend one
session a week, but if finances are tight, we can also meet every other
We do not accept insurance. Why don't we? Three reasons. First of
all, most insurance companies do not recognize sexual sin as a problem, nor
do they want to pay for treatment. If you are lucky enough to have a company
that is willing to pay, they usually only pay for 6 sessions. Breaking free
takes time, energy, and effort--a month of counseling is far too short a
time for you to make any real progress. Secondly, insurance companies often
want to dictate what we can and cannot do as counselors. Thirdly, in order
to pay the insurance companies their cut, we would have to charge you the
high rates that most counselors charge. Besides, we think that you (and not
some company) should pay the price to get free. Trust us, this investment
will be well worth your time and money!
We also respect your right to privacy and do everything possible
to ensure the confidentiality of our sessions. Your file will be listed
under a randomly chosen number and the key to the numbers is always kept
apart from where we store our files. Even if someone by some chance gained
access to your files, there is no identifying information included in the
Call or email us today to
start the counseling process that will set you on the road to consistent